Sakina was born in 1923 in the Principality of Bahawalpur as the 3rd of 6 sisters. One of her sisters remarked that “We didn’t have a brother but we did have Sakina”. Sakina earned an Associates Degree in Mathematics and Economics from Islamia College in Lahore. Sakina became Aziz Ahmed Gilani’s second wife in 1945. Aziz and Sakina moved to Minchinabad where they had their son Naeem in 1946. After spending partition hiding in a cotton field, she moved back to Bahawalpur where she had her daughters Nuzhat in 1948 and Nighat in 1950. Her husband Aziz then died when his jeep was run over by a train in 1951.
She remarried in 1954 as the second wife to Noor Muhammad Mehmoodi under the condition that she change her first name to Qamar. She completed Hajj with her new husband in 1958. In 1964, after 5 consecutive miscarriages, she had her second son Akbar. In 1980 she first came to the US to join her first son Naeem, and gave permission for him to name his first son after her deceased husband. She spent the next several years shuttling back and forth staying with Nuzhat, Naeem, and Akbar while periodically working as a substitute teacher in the US and managing a beauty salon in Bahawalpur. In 1987 Noor Muhammad Mehmoodi died and she permanently resettled in the US.
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1 Abbas Kazimi // Aug 31, 2009 at 10:25 pm
Salam Aziz,
I just checked up on your blog after a while and saw this post. I wanted to send you and your family my sincerest condolences. Insha’Allah I will make dua for her and you all this Ramadan and that God grant you patience and perseverance.
Best,
Abbas
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